Happy Feet: Cashing In On Weddings

The joy of a wedding can often only be expressed through song and dance. The union of two people, in love, is one of the few wondrous celebrations we can hope to enjoy. It stands to reason, therefore, that such a joining should be sealed not only with a kiss, but also with jolly dancing. Rooted in ancient traditions, the so-called “money dance” has become a staple of most contemporary weddings.

Guests are typically invited to either offer cash gifts in return for a dance or simply hand over envelopes full of money. At the behest of the best man or the master of ceremonies, the revelry subsides and the money dance is announced. This money traditionally goes towards the costs of establishing a new household for the newlyweds. As it is often said, the best gift is cash.

Some traditions insist the gift money must be pinned to the bride’s gown or to her veil, while in other traditions it is simply handed to her in an envelope. Some families insist the bride puts the money into a specially designed apron or purse. In some countries, the gift money is given to the best man to keepsake until the conclusion of the festivities. The tradition varies from region to region and country to county.

Who asks for a dance is a point of decorum. In the Ukraine, for instance, the bride is traditionally asked to dance first by her father and then by the best man and groomsmen. In other countries, this honor is left to anyone brave enough to ask. In modern celebrations, the bridesmaids and the maids of honor will likewise oblige the groom to dance.

After the cash is gone, after all, they will have something to pass on to their children as an heirloom. The money dance, though lucrative for the newlywed couple, should be supplemented with exquisite gifts and household appliances. Of the myriad of fine gifts available to couples few can compare to superbly wrought Baccarat crystal pieces or Ritmo Mundo timepieces.